Amber de la Mottes Wants Daughters to be ‘Wives and Mothers’
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Amber de la Mottes, a prominent figure, has recently shared her vision for her daughters on an upcoming TLC show. The matriarch expressed her desire for her daughters, Pearl and Naomi, to prioritize becoming ‘wives and mothers’ over pursuing careers. This revelation came in a teaser clip for the show ‘Big Family, Big City,’ which is scheduled to premiere on Feb. 25.

In the clip, Amber can be seen discussing her aspirations for her daughters with them, emphasizing the importance of having a husband who can provide for them and a family in the future. She mentioned her belief that her sons should grow up to be providers while wanting her daughters to focus on preparing to fulfill the roles of wives and mothers.
During the conversation, Naomi, who is a talented musician, expressed her desire to continue her career in music production for films while expecting her future spouse to support the family financially. In response, Amber suggested that there are opportunities for her daughters to work from home to support their husbands while raising a family.
Furthermore, Pearl, another daughter with musical aspirations, asserted her desire to continue pursuing her music career even after starting a family. She highlighted the importance of not having to sacrifice her career for the sake of children. This led to a discussion within the family about balancing personal aspirations with traditional family roles.
Amber elaborated on her views in a confessional, expressing that she would feel like she had failed if her daughters chose to prioritize their careers over starting a family. She described this perspective as being rooted in what she considered to be a woman’s nature at a fundamental level.
The upcoming TLC show, ‘Big Family, Big City,’ will follow the de la Mottes family as they navigate life with 11 children in New York City. The move from San Diego to Harlem presents new challenges and experiences for the family as they adjust to a fast-paced urban lifestyle.
Amber and her husband, Mark, shared that music plays a central role in their family dynamic, providing purpose and structure for their children. The special promises to offer a glimpse into the joys and struggles of raising a large family in a bustling metropolis.
Despite their differing views on career priorities, the de la Mottes’ journey on ‘Big Family, Big City’ is sure to spark conversations about traditional gender roles, family dynamics, and pursuing personal goals within a familial context. The show is set to premiere on TLC on Feb. 25, offering viewers a unique perspective on modern family life.
