Carly Waddell, known for her appearance on the reality TV show “Bachelor in Paradise,” has made headlines yet again as she announced the end of her engagement to Todd Allen Tressler. The news of their split was revealed by Waddell in a heartfelt Instagram video, where she opened up about the difficult decision she had to make. Despite not feeling completely ready to share the news with the public, Waddell felt it was important to be honest and real with her fans.
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In the candid video, Waddell disclosed that she had actually called off the engagement approximately a month prior, a decision that she did not take lightly. She acknowledged the challenges of timing, particularly as her children had just settled into a new routine with school and sports. Although the timing was far from ideal, Waddell expressed acceptance of the situation, stating, “You know what? It is what it is.”

Having gone through a previous high-profile separation from her ex-husband, Evan Bass, in December 2020, Waddell reflected on her current state of peace with the recent decision. Despite the complexities of dating as a single parent, Waddell shared that her priority remains creating the best possible environment for her children, Isabella and Charles, whom she shares with Bass.
The former reality star began her romantic journey with Tressler in March 2024 and their engagement was publicly announced in October of the same year. Waddell even revealed that she had initiated the proposal a year prior to Tressler’s official proposal. However, the challenges of navigating post-divorce relationships, especially with children involved, were not underestimated by Waddell, as she highlighted the difficulties of making tough decisions that impact both herself and her family.
Receiving an outpouring of support from her fellow Bachelor Nation members, Waddell’s decision to share her story on social media was met with admiration and encouragement. Friends like Jade Roper Tolbert and Jillian Harris commended Waddell for prioritising her well-being and that of her children, acknowledging the importance of making choices that serve their best interests.
As Waddell continues to navigate the complexities of relationships and family dynamics in the public eye, her transparency and vulnerability in addressing the end of her engagement serve as a reminder of the real-life challenges that underlie the glitz and glamour of reality television. By opening up about her experiences, Waddell not only honours her own journey but also provides a relatable narrative for those who may be facing similar trials in their personal lives.
