Melissa Gilbert Shares Insights on ‘Challenging’ Relationship with Rob Lowe
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In a recent episode of the I Choose Me podcast, Melissa Gilbert delved into the complexities of her past relationship with actor Rob Lowe. The iconic actress, best known for her role in “Little House on the Prairie,” discussed how her six-year relationship with Lowe, dating back to 1981, was marked by turmoil and challenges.
Reflecting on their time together, Gilbert revealed that she was just 17 when she first started dating Lowe, and the relationship endured until they were 23. The actress described the period as “very tumultuous,” highlighting the struggles they faced while navigating their romance under the scrutiny of the public eye.
The podcast conversation between Gilbert and host Jennie Garth touched upon the unique experience of having their early relationships play out in the spotlight. Gilbert candidly shared her perspective on the impact of fame on their dynamic, especially following Lowe’s breakout role in “The Outsiders” in 1983.
As their relationship progressed, Gilbert found herself in a position where she had to witness Lowe’s rapid rise to stardom while grappling with the challenges that came with it. She admitted to feeling unprepared for the intense attention from fans and the media, particularly the overwhelming response from female admirers.
Despite initially viewing other women as allies, Gilbert soon realized the harsh reality of competing for Lowe’s attention in the midst of his growing popularity. The actress recounted feeling sidelined and overlooked, with fans disregarding her presence to pursue connections with Lowe directly.
Looking back on the relationship, Gilbert acknowledged the valuable lessons she learned from the tumultuous experience. While the journey was fraught with heartbreak and difficulties, she emphasised the importance of those lessons in shaping her future relationships and personal growth.
While the memories of their time together may have been bittersweet, Gilbert expressed gratitude for the life she leads now. Reflecting on the contrast between her past anxieties and her current sense of peace, she highlighted the emotional growth and resilience that emerged from the challenges she faced with Lowe.
Following her relationship with Lowe, Gilbert went on to marry Bo Brinkman in 1988, Bruce Boxleitner in 1995, and eventually found lasting love with Timothy Busfield, whom she married in 2013. Lowe, on the other hand, has been happily married to Sheryl since 1991, with whom he shares two sons, Matthew and John Owen.
As Gilbert continues to navigate her personal and professional life with grace and resilience, her candid reflections on past relationships offer a glimpse into the transformative power of experience and self-discovery. Through her journey, she exemplifies the strength and wisdom gained from overcoming adversity and finding love in unexpected places.