Kristin Davis Reveals Feeling Unprotected While Filming Intimate ‘Sex and the City Scenes’
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In an exclusive interview, Kristin Davis opens up about her experiences filming intimate scenes during the early days of the hit series Sex and The City. The actress, now 59, speaks candidly about the challenges and discomfort she faced while simulating sex scenes without the support of intimacy coordinators when the show first aired in 1998.


Recounting her feelings during that time, Davis admits to feeling “confused” about the abundance of intimate scenes in the script, expressing that not all of them felt necessary to the storyline. She reflects on her belief that the show, primarily targeted towards women, could potentially make female viewers uncomfortable with the focus on explicit content. Davis suggests that the portrayal of sex on the show may have catered more to the male gaze, rather than the female perspective.
Moreover, the actress discloses her personal struggles with portraying sexuality on television, admitting to feeling scared and unprotected during the early stages of filming. She recounts instances where she needed to retreat to her dressing room and even call her manager in Los Angeles in the middle of the night for support following intense filming scenarios.
Davis also sheds light on her co-stars’ experiences with intimate scenes. She praises Kim Cattrall, who played Samantha Jones, for her fearlessness and ability to protect herself on set. However, she notes that Sarah Jessica Parker, portraying Carrie Bradshaw, despite being the most protected on set, also grappled with discomfort when it came to nudity on camera. Cynthia Nixon, in the role of Miranda Hobbes, is described as carefree and unfazed by intimate scenes, highlighting the variance in each cast member’s comfort levels.
Reflecting on the early days of filming Sex and The City, Davis admits that the cast was initially uncertain about how to approach the portrayal of sexuality and the perspectives from which it would be depicted. She points out the lack of discussions and support around filming such scenes, emphasising that with the presence of intimacy coordinators, there would have been more guidance and dialogue around the sensitive subject matter.
As time progressed, Davis observes a positive shift in the filming of sex scenes, noting that they became more aligned with the cast’s perspectives and comfort levels. Embracing her iconic role from the show, Davis announces her new podcast, Are You a Charlotte?, where she revisits episodes of Sex and The City, sharing behind-the-scenes stories and engaging in a cultural reevaluation of the series. Her co-star Cynthia Nixon expresses support and excitement for Davis’s new podcast venture, praising her growth and empowerment in taking charge of the storytelling.
In a media landscape where discussions on on-screen intimacy and actor safety are increasingly prevalent, Kristin Davis’s revelations provide valuable insights into the challenges actors face when navigating intimate scenes without adequate support. Her journey from discomfort to empowerment reflects a broader shift towards prioritising actors’ well-being and ensuring a supportive environment for all cast and crew members.
