The family of the late actress Susan Saint James has shared poignant memories of her selflessness and strength following a personal tragedy that marked a turning point in her life. Their reflections come in the wake of Saint James’ death on 26 October 2023, following her battle with pancreatic cancer.
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Saint James became known not only for her celebrated career in television, including her Emmy-winning roles, but also for her remarkable resilience in the face of overwhelming sorrow. Her family recalled how, just weeks after the tragic loss of her youngest son Teddy in a plane crash, she managed to put the needs of her loved ones above her own grief.
In a statement provided to PEOPLE, Saint James’ family recounted her extraordinary act of delivering Teddy’s eulogy, which served as a heartfelt message of solace for her other children and her husband, Dick Ebersol. “Her defining act was to give them words to heal, even amidst her deepest grief,” they shared. This moment encapsulated her unwavering commitment to those she loved, often prioritising their emotional welfare over her suffering.
The family’s statement further highlighted Saint James’ gratitude toward those who rallied around them during their time of despair. Just days after the crash that claimed Teddy’s life, she took the opportunity to express thanks publicly. Sitting down with Tim Russert, she reached out to those who had offered their support, assuring them that the family was managing in the aftermath of the tragedy.
On 28 November 2004, Teddy was aboard a chartered jet with his father and older brother, Charlie, when the aircraft crashed during takeoff near Montrose, Colorado, amid challenging weather conditions. This tragic incident resulted in the loss of Teddy, aged just 14, and two crew members, while Dick and Charlie survived but required medical attention for their injuries.
Two years later, Saint James, Ebersol, and their surviving sons discussed the catastrophic event during an emotional interview on “The Oprah Winfrey Show.” The appearance represented their first public conversation as a family since the incident. During the broadcast, Saint James candidly shared her struggle to part with Teddy’s possessions, revealing that she had not yet been able to touch his belongings. “I’ve never been able to move his things,” she admitted, her voice trembling with emotion.
Ebersol, who suffered injuries from the crash, described Charlie’s courageous actions as he attempted to save his younger brother. “He ran back into the plane, which had flames all around it, to look for his brother one more time,” Ebersol recounted, illustrating the bravery and bond between the siblings. This account poignantly shed light on the trauma endured by the family as they grappled with their loss.
Despite an ordeal that would have shattered many families, Saint James expressed that life must continue. She remarked on the daily routines that provided solace, stating, “You get up the next day, you brush your teeth, you comb your hair … life is so powerful, you just go on living.” This attitude of determination and support continued to define how she lived her life and raised her family.
Saint James’ family noted her innate generosity and kindness, recalling how she was drawn to others in need and made it a point to uplift those around her. “She taught her children to pause, be kind, and look out for other people,” they conveyed, reflecting on the values she instilled within them.
Her ability to forge connections also left a lasting impression on those she encountered, as her family noted: “She never met a stranger.” Every interaction, no matter how brief, was a meaningful one for Saint James, who possessed an extraordinary knack for engaging others.
Saint James leaves behind her husband, Dick Ebersol; four children—Sunshine Lucas, Harmony Lucas, Charlie Ebersol, and Willie Ebersol; and seven grandchildren. She is remembered fondly not only for her professional accomplishments but also for the warmth, kindness, and positivity she shared with everyone she met. Her inspiring life continues to resonate with all those who were lucky enough to know her.