Tony Shalhoub, the renowned actor best known for his role as the obsessive-compulsive detective Adrian Monk, is set to release a new book titled *We Thought They’d Never Leave*. Co-authored with his daughter, Josie Adams, the publication reflects on various aspects of Shalhoub’s life, from his formative years and acting career to the precious family traditions he continues to uphold.
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Scheduled to hit the shelves on 27th October, the book offers an intimate glance into the actor’s world, blending personal anecdotes and thoughtful reflections. In an exclusive preview shared with *People*, he reveals twelve pet peeves that echo his character’s nuanced personality, often blurring the lines between character and actor.
Shalhoub has been engaged with the character of Adrian Monk for over 25 years, leading to frequent questions about how much the detective’s quirks mirror his own traits. While he initially dismisses the notion of a strong connection, he acknowledges certain minor similarities that arise from his life experiences. This light-hearted exploration within the book is a nod to his multifaceted persona, both on-screen and off.

Among the quirks Shalhoub discusses are pet peeves that many can relate to but which often go unnoticed by others. For example, he expresses frustration about the improper organisation of food and beverages within a refrigerator. He articulates the simple frustration of not being able to find items in their proper places, showcasing how even the smallest disruptions can alter one’s sense of order.
The actor’s list continues with his annoyance over unlabelled power cords. Shalhoub’s candid complaints extend beyond the kitchen, addressing societal behaviours he finds perplexing. Included on his list are adults who correct children’s pronunciations and those who mispronounce words themselves, drawing attention to the endearing nature of children’s language mistakes.
Shalhoub’s keen observations also touch upon public behaviours that can be deemed irritating during events such as sports matches or theatre performances. He criticises politicians who single out individuals during speeches, which can create confusion among the wider audience, and expresses exasperation at football broadcasts lingering unnecessarily on coaches.
In discussing the etiquette of theatre-going, Shalhoub passionately defends audiences against distracting behaviours. He emphasises the importance of maintaining a respectful environment, akin to a sacred space, where the enjoyment of live performances is not marred by technological disruptions or coughs.
These reflections, sprinkled with humour and humanity, create a lively visual of Shalhoub as a relatable figure navigating the challenges of everyday life much like his audience does. His book not only encapsulates frustration but also fosters a connection with readers, urging them to identify their own annoyances while celebrating human idiosyncrasies.
*We Thought They’d Never Leave* promises to resonate with those familiar with Shalhoub’s work and character, while drawing in new readers with its candid humour and thoughtful insights. As he shares his experiences, he invites others to reflect on their own lives and the idiosyncrasies we all encounter.
The book is now available for pre-order and is eagerly anticipated by fans eager to delve deeper into the world of Tony Shalhoub, both as a celebrated actor and as a man who cherishes the complexities of life and family.
