Leslie Grossman, the 54-year-old actress best known for her roles in a variety of television series, recently opened up about her unexpected journey to love at an event celebrating the latest season of “American Horror Story.” During her discussion with PEOPLE at PaleyFest NY, Grossman reflected on her life since marrying filmmaker Sascha Penn, a relationship she did not foresee finding at this stage in her life.
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Grossman married Penn in July 2025, a union that took place in a private ceremony on Martha’s Vineyard. The couple opted for an elopement, but later held a celebration on New Year’s Eve, which was orchestrated by her longtime friend and collaborator, Ryan Murphy. Grossman expressed gratitude for Murphy’s efforts, describing the event as one of the highlights of her life.
“I was married before and met my husband at 50,” Grossman shared during the interview. “This is a whole new chapter for me.” She noted that she never envisioned herself remarrying, admitting, “I never would have seen this for myself. It’s been very, very special.” This chapter marks a significant shift from her previous marriage, which lasted 20 years before ending in divorce in April 2020. Grossman and her ex-husband Jon Bronson share a daughter, Goldie.
Murphy played a crucial role in convincing Grossman to celebrate her marriage in a more public manner, despite her initial hesitation. “When you get married a second time, you tend to think, ‘It’s okay, we eloped,’” she recounted. However, Murphy encouraged her by stating, “Everybody loves you. We want to celebrate this. And that’s that.” Following his advice proved wise, as the gathering turned out to be an unforgettable evening.
The New Year’s celebration was designed to be intimate, with just a few close friends and family members in attendance. Among the notable guests were fellow actors Sarah Paulson and Holland Taylor, both of whom made heartfelt speeches. Grossman described the atmosphere as having a “winter wonderland vibe,” making it a fitting backdrop for their joyous occasion.
The actress and Murphy first teamed up on the teen series “Popular,” which aired from 1999 to 2001 before they continued their collaboration on “American Horror Story.” Their longstanding friendship has clearly influenced Grossman’s life choices, as she acknowledges the importance of having supportive friends during significant transitions.
For Grossman, this new relationship has brought unforeseen joy. She admits she is fully invested in this part of her life, with Penn being “the absolute love of my life.” Her experience serves as a reminder that love can blossom unexpectedly, even when it seems least likely.
Now, as she embraces her role within her blended family, which includes Penn’s three children from a previous relationship, Grossman looks forward to the adventures ahead. Her story resonates with many who may find themselves at similar crossroads, proving that it is never too late to rewrite one’s narrative.
In reflecting on her journey thus far, Leslie Grossman demonstrates a powerful message about love, resilience, and the importance of celebrating life’s milestones, no matter where one is in their journey. The actress’s candidness and appreciation for her supportive circle illustrate how pivotal connections can facilitate personal growth and happiness, particularly in one’s later years.