**New Jersey Couple Turns Name Change into a Friendly Competition with 31 Challenges**
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A couple from New Jersey has devised a playful method to settle a significant decision ahead of their wedding in 2028: which last name they will adopt. Bailey Adams and Larissa Scandora, who have been together since October 2022 and became engaged in July 2025, are competing in 31 unique challenges to determine whose surname they will keep after their marriage.
As they began the planning process for their spring wedding, the question of which last name to use arose. The pair both expressed fondness for their names, each representing their respective families. However, the couple struggled to find common ground on which surname to choose. Scandora shared, “We really couldn’t come up with an answer.”
The couple was keen on sharing a last name, but both felt attached to their own. “We were both okay with changing our last name, even though we also really want to keep it,” Adams explained. This led them to consider a more engaging solution than merely flipping a coin or making a hasty decision.
With their competitive spirits in mind, the idea of a series of challenges emerged. Reflected in their everyday interactions, they often resolve disagreements through playful competitions, like deciding what to have for dinner by playing video games. “When we started talking about it, Larissa made a joke that we should flip a coin. Then we realised, ‘Why not do a challenge?’” Adams noted.
The couple planned out a month-long series of 31 challenges, with the goal of reaching 16 victories. Whoever wins the majority will have the right to keep their last name, while the other will adopt it. Scandora remarked on how the challenges began to take shape, noting the effort they put into creating fun and enjoyable activities. “Once we do one, we’re constantly thinking, ‘Okay, what’s next and how can we make it even better?’”
The inventive challenges range from pool races to flip cup games, balloon dart contests, bobbing for apples, and even outrageous chicken costume races. To add an extra layer of excitement, they intentionally sought to incorporate fun and humour into each activity. “We love laughing together and doing that type of stuff,” Adams shared. The idea is not only to make the competition enjoyable but also to create lasting memories.
The challenges have gained significant attention on TikTok, where the couple posts videos of their endeavours, amassing thousands of views and engaging with fans who cheer for them. This new platform has added an interesting twist to their experiences, giving them an audience that roots for their favourite surname.
Throughout this adventure, the couple has found themselves enjoying an unexpected bond. “It’s actually been really interesting to see how creative and smart she is,” Scandora stated, acknowledging the collaborative nature of their initiative. Adams echoed these sentiments, saying that the experience has pushed them to engage in activities they might not ordinarily choose to do.
Notably, the couple shared laughs as they donned inflatable chicken suits for one challenge. “We love doing games and challenges, but I don’t think we’ve ever gone out in public dressed like that,” Adams said, reflecting on how these fun moments have brought them closer together. From slip and slide antics to various entertaining games, their time spent in laughter-filled activities has made the challenges cherished experiences.
While both women have strong feelings about their last names, they are grateful for the opportunity to create a personal and meaningful decision surrounding this change. Scandora admitted, “Whoever wins, it’s like, ‘Okay, they’re actually going to have to change their name.’”
As of Thursday, September 24, they completed their final challenge, and a victor emerged. Adams raised her arms in triumph, having claimed the right to keep her surname. This light-hearted competition, born from a serious consideration, has undoubtedly strengthened their relationship and provided a wealth of laughter and love in the lead-up to their wedding. As they look forward to their future, both Adams and Scandora can now reflect on this unique chapter of their journey together.