In a bid to create a charming dorm room for her daughter, Amber Jessup has turned to second-hand treasures, expertly navigating the world of thrifting. Jessup, a 46-year-old Texas resident and mother of four, has embraced this cost-effective decorating method as a therapeutic pastime, particularly while raising her children, including a daughter with special needs.
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As her daughter Grace prepared to start her freshman year at Stephen F. Austin State University, Jessup took on the challenge of sourcing thrifted décor for Grace’s new room. With experience sending her two older children through college, this marked a first for Jessup, who opted to thrift rather than purchase new items from retail stores. “I used to just be a regular retail store mum,” Jessup remarked, highlighting the significance of this shift in approach.

Grace’s dorm room was designed around a blue-and-pink colour palette, a choice that reflects her personal style and preferences. Jessup spoke of her daughter’s admiration for the Pottery Barn and LoveShackFancy bedding collaboration, which served as inspiration for the room’s aesthetic. “If it was blue, pink, floral, or had a bow and gold accents too, it could fit the criteria, and I brought it home,” she said, explaining the thought process behind her selections.

Over the past year, Jessup dedicated her spare time to scouring thrift shops, antiques stores, and online marketplaces for decorative items that would transform the space. Items included wall art, picture frames, and smaller trinkets that added a unique touch to the room. Jessup’s innovative approach not only allowed for a personalised decor style but also served to keep costs down significantly. “I would say I saved at least £500, maybe even £1,000,” she calculated, noting the financial relief of avoiding pricey dorm room furnishings.
The creative endeavour became a heartwarming tradition between mother and daughter, as they shared their dream designs throughout Grace’s final year of high school. “We’ve looked at people’s dorms probably almost every year,” Jessup shared, emphasising the bond this activity fostered. Although Grace herself was not initially keen on thrifting, she embraced her mother’s efforts and the resulting décor, which turned out to be true to her vision.
Jessup was keen to balance thrifted items with new essentials, opting for items like curtains, a rug, and bathroom accessories to ensure cleanliness and longevity. The combination of new and second-hand furnishings created a comfortable and inviting atmosphere in Grace’s room. “The main thrifted decor… are the things that are going to be hung on the wall,” she explained, attributing significant value to these personalised touches.
The coordination of décor with Grace’s roommate was another important consideration. As the two girls prepared to share their apartment-style dorm, they communicated to ensure that their individual rooms would complement each other. For instance, Jessup found matching lampshades, which highlighted their collaborative spirit while allowing each girl to maintain her unique flair.
Reflecting on the dramatic changes in dorm room styles since her own college days in the 1990s, Jessup noted how decorating trends have evolved. “If you could see my dorm room in the ’90s — oh my gosh, I thought we were bougie, over the top because we had some matching Ralph Lauren bedding,” she recalled. In contrast, today’s students often showcase elaborate and luxurious room designs, prompting Jessup to be resourceful in her own approach.
Ultimately, Jessup hopes to inspire other parents to engage in conversations with their children about their dorm room preferences while taking advantage of thrift shopping. Her successful journey demonstrates that with a bit of creativity and planning, it’s possible to create a stunning and personal living space without breaking the bank. “Whenever it came time to buy all of the other necessity stuff, the decor was taken care of. I had spent her senior year doing that,” she concluded, reflecting on the satisfaction of having made the process enjoyable and affordable.
