Single Dad Mourns His Son, 17, Who Died in Head-on Dirt Bike Crash with Friend: ‘Wouldn’t Wish It on My Worst Enemy’

Tragedy struck in Alaska on July 14 when two young men, Paul Lingley IV, 17, and Greyer Schwegel, 18, lost their lives in a head-on collision while riding dirt bikes. The two friends were riding together in Hollis when the accident occurred, and despite the prompt response from emergency services, both were pronounced dead at the scene.

Paul IV’s father, Paul Lingley III, was present during the devastating incident. He shared his heartache, stating, “It was tough, really tough… I wouldn’t wish it on my worst enemy.” Reflecting on his son, who was about to enter his senior year at Klawock High School, he described him as a passionate basketball player and a dedicated elder sibling to his three younger brothers and sisters.

For the past five years, Paul III has navigated single fatherhood, with his son being a substantial support during this time. “He would help me get the kids to school when I was at work,” he recalled. “Most of the time they were on time. He did a lot of the cleaning in the kitchen and that was kind of his job.” This commitment to his family underscored the character of Paul IV, described by his father as a ‘good kid’ and ‘hard worker’ who was deeply loved by those around him.

The bond between Paul IV and Greyer Schwegel was particularly strong toward the end of the school year, with Paul III noting, “He always talked about him.” This tragic event not only affected the Lingley family but also sent shockwaves through the island community, where both teens were well-known and cherished.

In remembrance of Paul IV, a GoFundMe page has been established to assist his family during this incredibly difficult time. The campaign aims to alleviate some of the financial burden to allow them space to grieve. The description of the fundraiser resonates with a shared sentiment: “No parent should ever have to face this kind of pain,” and emphasises the importance of community support in healing.

Greyer’s father, Cody Schwegel, also shared his thoughts on the tragic accident, describing it as a devastating loss for their family and friends. He characterised Greyer as a young man with a helping spirit, always ready to support others. The GoFundMe for Greyer’s family highlights his deep connection to the community, stating, “With a heart for Jesus, Greyer was always looking for ways to help others. His compassion and kindness left a lasting impact on everyone who knew him, and his loss has left a profound void in the lives of those around him.”

The outpouring of grief from the local residents reflects the impact both young men had in their communities. Friends, classmates, and family have come together to support the Lingley and Schwegel families and honour the memories of these two promising youths, whose lives were tragically cut short.

Both families are now in the process of navigating life without their beloved sons, facing a journey filled with sorrow and remembrance. Efforts continue to raise funds for both families, allowing the community to support them in their time of need.

As they face the future, Paul Lingley III and Cody Schwegel, along with their families, are left with the poignant memories of their sons and the strength that their friendships provided. The hope remains that these young men’s legacies will shine bright, guiding their loved ones through this dark chapter.