Hilary Duff has opened up about her journey into motherhood, discussing her decision to have children with husband Matthew Koma before their marriage. The actress and singer, who welcomed their daughter Banks a year prior to their wedding in December 2019, spoke candidly about her experiences during a recent appearance on The Morgan Stewart Show.
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In the interview, Duff reflected on her relationship with Koma, whom she met in 2015 while she was working on her album Breathe. Although their romance experienced ups and downs, including two break-ups, Duff shared that their desire to start a family ultimately brought them back together. “We got back together, we were like, ‘We should have a baby,’ which is psycho,” she remarked, acknowledging the unconventional nature of their decision. Just three weeks later, Duff discovered she was pregnant with Banks.

The couple subsequently tied the knot, with Banks playing a unique role in their wedding ceremony. “We had the baby, got married, which was actually so fun,” Duff recalled. In a heartwarming moment, she noted that her daughter walked her down the aisle, while her son Luca, whom she shares with ex-husband Mike Comrie, walked Koma down the aisle. This unconventional family dynamic added to the joy of their special day, with Duff fondly recommending the experience to others.

In addition to Banks, Duff and Koma are parents to two more daughters: Mae, aged five, and Townes, aged two. The actress is also mother to her 14-year-old son Luca. Discussing her experiences with her children, Duff expressed no regrets about her choices in motherhood, stating that her journey has been fulfilling and rewarding.
During her appearance on the Jennifer Hudson Show, the 38-year-old actress proudly declared that she has reached “cool mom” status with some of her younger children. “My little ones are my number one fans,” she shared, explaining how they eagerly attend her shows and marvel at her performances. Their excitement, particularly when confetti cannons go off, brings her joy and makes her feel appreciated in her role as a mother and performer.
Despite the admiration from her younger daughters, Duff revealed that her teenage son may not view her in the same light. “But my teenager, I think he doesn’t think I’m totally embarrassing,” she said with a laugh, while acknowledging the distinction between her children’s perceptions. Interestingly, she noted that some of Luca’s friends approach her, possibly impressed by her presence on social media platforms, which adds to her confidence as a mother.
In addition to her personal life, Duff continues to thrive professionally. She released her latest album, “Luck… or Something”, in February and is gearing up to embark on her Lucky Me Tour in June. The ambitious venture showcases her ongoing commitment to her music career, even as she navigates the challenges and joys of raising four children.
Overall, Duff’s openness about her motherhood journey and the unconventional path she took before marrying Koma provides insight into her personal life. Her candid reflections on parenting highlight the love and joy she derives from her family, as well as her passion for her career in entertainment. As she continues to balance these aspects, fans are sure to appreciate the relatable moments she shares about being a mother in the public eye.
