**Tragic Loss Inspires Fundraising Initiative for Infant Privacy Prams**
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A devastating tale of loss has motivated a grieving mother to turn her sorrow into action and support other families facing similar heartache. Ami Boyd, from Ormskirk, England, was left reeling after the unexpected passing of her baby daughter, Flossie Bilboe, who died at just six weeks old. Following her untimely death, Boyd learned Flossie had a rare genetic condition known as hereditary hemorrhagic telangiectasia (HHT), which can lead to severe health complications.

Flossie was born in July 2024 and appeared to be a healthy infant until September of that year, when her condition changed unexpectedly. Boyd recalls that Flossie began to cry uncontrollably, prompting her to seek medical help. “We thought she was absolutely fine… but the crying was not normal,” Boyd explained. Efforts by the A&E team initially focused on assessing her condition, suspecting sepsis only to discover that Flossie was suffering from a brain bleed.
Once Flossie was diagnosed, she was transferred to Alder Hey Children’s Hospital, where the family’s hopes were quickly dashed. “We were advised to turn off the ventilator, and she died the next day,” Boyd said, capturing the anguish felt by her and her partner, Michael Bilboe. The couple had welcomed their daughter with joy, and her sudden decline felt surreal and incomprehensible.
After enduring this trauma, Boyd and her son Henry, aged six, were also diagnosed with HHT, connecting them to the same rare genetic condition that had claimed Flossie’s life. Reflecting on the gravity of their situation, Boyd expressed a deep desire to raise awareness about infant loss and to help other families impacted by similar tragedies. To honour Flossie’s memory, she is embarking on a fundraising campaign called “Walking Flossie’s Final Journey.”
The planned initiative involves a walk spanning 13.2 miles between Ormskirk Hospital and Alder Hey Children’s Hospital. Through this event, Boyd hopes to raise funds for “privacy prams” to be used in hospitals. These specially designed strollers, which come equipped with a hood, allow parents to transport deceased infants discreetly, providing a modicum of privacy during an unimaginably painful time. “When Flossie died, I remember the anxiety of going through the hospital holding my baby,” she recounted. “A privacy pram protects families and allows them to take their baby for a walk around the hospital grounds.”
Boyd’s commitment to keeping Flossie’s memory alive is clear. As Flossie’s second birthday approaches, Boyd aims to channel her grief into something constructive. “It’s a way to ensure that something good comes from her life. Her passing can’t be for nothing,” she stated. Alongside privacy prams, funds raised will also benefit the North West and North Wales Pediatric Transport Service, which played a vital role in Flossie’s care.
Despite the emotional toll of commemorating her daughter’s birthday, Boyd stresses the importance of discussing infant loss openly. “Nobody wants to talk about their baby dying, but it’s crucial to have these conversations. It helps those grieving feel less isolated,” she noted. Recognising these experiences can provide solace to families grappling with similar heartache, she hopes to break the silence surrounding such profound losses.
As she prepares for the fundraising walk and reflects on how different life would be had Flossie lived, Boyd continues to grapple with her grief. “It’s hard to accept that she would be two now, playing and exploring the world. It’s not just the anniversaries that are difficult; it’s everyday moments that remind you of what could have been,” she lamented.
For those wishing to support Boyd in her efforts to honour Flossie’s legacy and assist others navigating through the darkness of infant loss, donations can be made through her GoFundMe page, “Walking Flossie’s Final Journey.” Boyd’s determination to create positive change amidst her suffering is a powerful testament to love and resilience, ensuring that Flossie’s life, however brief, will continue to have a lasting impact on others.
