Boy, 13, Dies by Suicide Days After His Birthday, Was Told He Was ‘Seeking Attention’ for Bullying Concerns, Family Says

A 13-year-old boy, Josiah Michael Dwinell, tragically died by suicide in Alstead, New Hampshire, on March 12, just days following his thirteenth birthday. His family has described his passing as “truly heartbreaking,” shedding light on the struggles he faced with bullying at school.

Josiah’s aunt, Shaena Stebbins, who has taken the initiative to set up a GoFundMe page to assist with funeral expenses and support the family during this challenging time, revealed that the young boy had been a victim of relentless bullying, both at school and on the bus. “He was being bullied at school, and not one person outside his home tried to help him,” she stated, emphasising the emotional toll this had taken on her nephew.

The family’s sorrow is compounded by the loss of Josiah’s mother, who passed away five years ago. Since then, he had been adopted by his grandmother, whom he affectionately called “Mimi.” Stebbins recounted that she had been an unwavering advocate for Josiah, standing by him during his struggles and seeking the help he desperately needed. “He went to the hospital on numerous occasions where his Mimi sat by his side holding him, trying to get him the help he was seeking, but his mental health was overlooked,” Stebbins stated.

On the GoFundMe page, Stebbins shared poignant insights about Josiah, illustrating his vibrant personality and the joy he brought to those around him. “He was an amazing brother, son, nephew, and all-around young man who meant so much to everyone who knew him,” she wrote. Reflecting on her family’s grief, she added, “Josiah brought light and joy to our lives, and his absence leaves a hole in our hearts that can never be filled. We are heartbroken and still trying to process this tragedy, but we want to honour his memory and give him the farewell he deserves.” The campaign has garnered significant support, having raised over £23,000 to assist with funeral costs and help the family in their healing process.

This heart-wrenching case has brought renewed attention to the issue of bullying and mental health in schools. Susan Stearns, Executive Director of the National Alliance on Mental Illness in New Hampshire, emphasised the importance of open conversations within families when discussing mental health challenges. “You want to be having conversations, but you don’t want to assume that a middle schooler has more knowledge than they do,” she advised.

Stearns recommended that parents and guardians approach these discussions with empathy and an understanding mind, creating a supportive environment for children to express their feelings. “If you are concerned that someone might be considering suicide, then you want to ask that directly,” she said. Stearns emphasised that addressing these concerns openly is crucial and dispelled the myth that discussing suicide might encourage harmful thoughts.

In light of this tragic incident, mental health advocates continue to highlight the urgent need for greater awareness, support systems, and intervention strategies to protect vulnerable young people from bullying and mental distress. Schools and communities must work collectively to create safer environments where children feel valued and supported.

For anyone grappling with mental health issues or facing emotional distress, help is available. Resources such as the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline are accessible 24/7 via call or text at 988, ensuring that those in need can receive immediate assistance.

The loss of Josiah Dwinell serves as a tragic reminder of the critical need for vigilance and compassion in addressing mental health and bullying among youth. His family hopes that by sharing his story, they can help others understand the importance of support and intervention for those who are struggling.