Whoopi Goldberg has openly discussed her refreshing approach to relationships, expressing a commitment to her independence during a recent episode of *The View*. The EGOT winner shared her thoughts in response to a *Cosmopolitan* essay that featured a woman in a long-term relationship reflecting on the joys of single life, including casual flings and spontaneity. Goldberg, now 70, confidently announced, “I am single. I do hit-and-runs when I need it, but I am not married to anybody, and I don’t have responsibilities.”
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Goldberg’s comments highlight a long-held belief that she has articulated in various public forums. In previous interviews, she has suggested that conventional romantic commitments may not suit everyone. Speaking to *Interview Magazine*, she remarked, “In the last 25 years, I recognised that not everybody’s cut out to be in a relationship. Some people are just cut out to be one-night stands.” She emphasised that her personal fulfilment does not rely on living with a partner. “I don’t want to live with anybody,” she stated, clarifying that while she values her connections with loved ones, it does not necessitate cohabitation.
When reflecting on her past marriages, Goldberg was candid about her experiences. During a 2025 episode of *The View*, she shared her perspective, saying, “I was always having great sex; I just wasn’t having any fun.” Her insights suggest a contrasting experience to those who seek fulfilment only within long-term relationships. This attitude towards her past performances in marriage further solidified her current stance on independence.
In a separate interview on *Who’s Talking to Chris Wallace?*, Goldberg elaborated on why she believes marriage may not be for her. “When you’re married to somebody, you have to be invested in how they’re feeling. I am not,” she quipped, adding with a laugh, “I don’t care how you feel. It’s terrible.” Despite her humorous approach, she also affirmed that her independence is not devoid of deep connections. “I’m invested in my kid. I’m invested in her kids. I’m invested in my son-in-law. I’m invested in my friends,” she explained, making it clear that her relationships take various forms and levels of investment without the need for traditional romantic ties.
Goldberg has been married three times—to Alvin Martin, David Claessen, and Lyle Trachtenberg—and has one daughter, Alexandrea Martin, from her first marriage. Despite the end of these relationships, she maintains a positive rapport with her former husbands. In an October 2024 interview, she mentioned, “I’m in touch with every one of them, because once they were my friends.” Her endorsement of amicable relationships post-divorce underscores a belief in friendship over bitterness, as she stated, “I don’t have to sleep with you, I don’t have to eat with you. But I can be [friendly], because there’s nobody that I’ve lived with or messed with that I absolutely hate.”
Goldberg’s views are particularly resonant in today’s discourse on relationships, where the traditional expectations of marriage and partnership are increasingly being questioned. Her perspective suggests a societal shift in how individuals define and pursue emotional and romantic fulfilment. She embraces a lifestyle that prioritises personal freedom, self-exploration, and connection without conventional commitments.
The iconic actress and presenter continues to influence conversations around personal fulfilment, showing that living on one’s own terms can be both empowering and fulfilling. Her unapologetic approach to relationships invites others to reconsider the meaning of love and companionship beyond traditional frameworks. As she navigates her journey through independence, Goldberg remains a powerful voice in advocating for a lifestyle that celebrates autonomy and meaningful connections, unmarred by societal expectations.