Patrick J. Adams, known for his role in the popular series “Suits”, has recently shared insights into his nearly decade-long marriage with actress Troian Bellisario. In an interview with PEOPLE at the premiere of his new television series “The Madison” in New York City, he reflected on the key elements that have strengthened their relationship since they tied the knot in 2016.
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Adams, who is 44 years old, emphasised the importance of active listening and mutual support in a successful marriage. He remarked that a genuine commitment to prioritising one another’s needs is vital. “Oh, listening to each other, taking care of each other, putting the other person before what you need,” he noted, highlighting these principles as foundational to their partnership. While he refrained from offering explicit relationship advice, acknowledging the couple’s share of challenges, he affirmed that patience and joy are essential ingredients in their life together.
The couple exchanged vows during a rustic celebration in California, surrounded by the natural beauty of woodlands. Their wedding took place over a weekend in December 2016, where guests were accommodated in camping tents, and the ceremony itself featured a candlelit setting nestled among the trees. Bellisario, 40, donned a stunning white gown designed by Cortana, complemented by a headpiece from Amaroq and a delicate veil. Adams matched her elegance in a navy blue three-piece suit by Ralph Lauren.
Their wedding guest list was a notable one, with fellow cast members from both their respective shows, “Suits” and “Pretty Little Liars”, in attendance. Among the guests were Lucy Hale, Ashley Benson, Sasha Pieterse, Keegan Allen, Ian Harding, and Sarah Rafferty, who all gathered to celebrate the couple’s union.
Since their wedding, Adams and Bellisario have welcomed three children into their family. They are parents to Aurora, who is now seven, and Elliot, aged four, as well as a newborn baby, whose arrival was announced earlier this year. After confirming the pregnancy in November 2025, Adams shared the joyful news of their third child’s birth on Instagram in January 2026. He posted a touching picture holding the tiny hand of their new child, captioning it with playful enthusiasm, “Tag, you’re it.”
In a heartfelt message shared during the pregnancy, Adams expressed their heartfelt anticipation for the new addition to their family. He wrote, “We don’t know your name yet,” adding a promise of unwavering love. He articulated the family’s readiness to provide not just love, but also laughter, dance parties, lullabies, and essential life lessons. “We don’t know much,” he concluded, “but we know there is nothing we want to be more than your parents.”
As Adams embarks on a new chapter in his career with “The Madison”, he is excited to collaborate with esteemed actors such as Michelle Pfeiffer, Kurt Russell, and Matthew Fox. The series, created by talented director Taylor Sheridan, is set to premiere on Paramount+ with its initial three episodes available from 14 March, followed by the remaining episodes premiering on 21 March.
Adams’ journey in both his personal and professional life serves as an inspiring narrative of love, growth, and evolving family dynamics. As he balances his roles as an actor and a dedicated father and husband, his reflections highlight the significance of communication and affection in sustaining lasting relationships. His story resonates with many, offering a glimpse into the realities of marriage, parenthood, and the joys and challenges they encompass.
With nearly ten years of marriage behind them, Adams and Bellisario remain committed to nurturing their relationship and family, continually sharing moments of joy and love that come with raising their children together, all while navigating their successful careers in the entertainment industry. Their experiences serve as a reminder of the foundational aspects of love that keep relationships thriving amidst the changing tides of life.