Patricia Altschul, a prominent figure from the reality TV show “Southern Charm”, has recently unveiled details about her three marriages in her latest memoir titled “Eat, Drink, and Remarry: Memories from a Lifetime of Art, Class, and Southern Charm”. The book, which was released on November 11th, delves into Altschul’s life before she gained fame and insight into her personal experiences with love and relationships.
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In an exclusive interview with PEOPLE, Altschul shared how her mother instilled in her the belief that it is okay to walk away from a marriage if it no longer brings happiness, even during a time when divorce was considered scandalous. This mindset guided her through her three marriages, each with its own unique challenges and outcomes.
The memoir sheds light on Altschul’s first marriage to Lon Smith, a businessman, with whom she shares a son named Whitney Sudler-Smith. The couple was married for 14 years before parting ways in 1979. Despite the separation, Altschul and Smith maintained an amicable relationship, co-parenting their son until Smith’s passing in August 2021.
Following her divorce from Lon Smith, Altschul entered into a second marriage with Edward Flemming in 1989. However, the relationship soon unravelled as she realised that they were not a compatible match. Altschul’s candid reflections in her memoir detail the challenges she faced in the marriage, including issues of control and isolation from her loved ones.
After the dissolution of her marriage to Edward Flemming, Altschul found love again with Arthur Altschul, whom she describes as the love of her life. Despite being together for 12 years, their time was cut short by Arthur’s passing in 2002. The memoir captures the deep connection the two shared and the profound impact of Arthur’s death on Altschul.
Throughout her experiences with marriage, Patricia Altschul shares her belief that there isn’t just one soulmate for each person but rather the importance of finding a partner who brings happiness and fulfillment. Her memoir offers a raw and honest portrayal of love, loss, and resilience in the face of life’s challenges.
“Eat, Drink, and Remarry: Memories From a Lifetime of Art, Class, and Southern Charm” is now available for readers to explore at their own pace. Altschul’s captivating storytelling invites readers to reflect on their own relationships and the complexities of love in a world where no marriage is without its trials.
As fans of “Southern Charm” and newcomers alike delve into the pages of Altschul’s memoir, they are sure to be captivated by the personal journey of a woman who has navigated the highs and lows of love with grace and unwavering strength. Altschul’s story serves as a testament to the resilience of the human spirit and the enduring power of love in all its forms.