Melani Sanders, the founder of the We Do Not Care Club, is making waves with her new venture into the world of menopause wisdom. Sanders, known for her viral online movement, is now translating her insights into a new book titled “The Official We Do Not Care Club Handbook.” This manifesto is designed to be a guiding light for women navigating the various stages of menopause. The book is set to be published in early 2026 by Harvest, an imprint of HarperCollins Publishers.
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Described as a combination of a survival manual and a rallying cry, the We Do Not Care Club Handbook offers practical advice for women going through perimenopause, menopause, and postmenopause. It encourages readers to embrace a carefree attitude towards certain aspects of life, such as wearing pajamas all day, cancelling plans, or even forsaking the razor for smooth legs. The book invites women to join the “We Do Not Care (WDNC) Club” and celebrates this new phase as a “hormonal party in town.”
With a large following of 2 million on Instagram and endorsements from notable figures like Drew Barrymore and The View co-hosts, Sanders aims to use this book as a platform to unite her community. She sees it as a love letter to her fellow women, a declaration that they are embracing a new version of themselves during this transition. Sanders injects her trademark humour into the book, promising readers an enjoyable and empowering read that is both real and raw.

“The Official We Do Not Care Club Handbook” is positioned as a candid and sometimes unfiltered companion for women navigating the complexities of menopause. Sanders emphasises camaraderie and self-acceptance, urging readers to grab their magnesium and heating pads for a chaotically good time. The book is now available for pre-order and is slated for release on January 13, 2026, offering a fresh perspective on an often challenging life stage.

Sanders’ book not only encapsulates her online movement’s essence but also aims to provide practical support and a sense of community for women facing menopause. Through humour, honesty, and a touch of rebellion, she encourages women to embrace this new chapter with confidence and self-assurance. By sharing her experiences and insights, Sanders hopes to empower women to navigate menopause with resilience and a sense of liberation.
In a world where menopause is often stigmatised or overlooked, Sanders’ work serves as a refreshing and empowering voice for women. Her blend of humour, honesty, and inclusivity creates a space for women to connect, support each other, and find solidarity in shared experiences. As the release date for “The Official We Do Not Care Club Handbook” approaches, it is evident that Sanders’ message of self-acceptance and camaraderie is resonating with women seeking guidance and reassurance during this transformative life stage.
The book’s humorous and unapologetic approach to menopause is a testament to Sanders’ commitment to destigmatising and normalising this natural phase of a woman’s life. By encouraging women to embrace their authentic selves and find joy in the midst of change, Sanders is sparking a new conversation around menopause—one that celebrates resilience, humour, and the power of collective support. “The Official We Do Not Care Club Handbook” holds the promise of not just informing but transforming the way women perceive and experience menopause.
