Keith Urban, the country music star, has written several songs about his now-estranged wife, Nicole Kidman, throughout their 19-year marriage. Nicole Kidman served as Keith Urban’s muse for nearly two decades after they tied the knot in 2006. The couple first met in 2005 at a Los Angeles gala and later married in Australia, where they both hail from. The Emmy-winning actress and Grammy-winning singer share two daughters, Sunday Rose and Faith Margaret, born in 2008 and 2010, respectively. Urban confirmed that at least five of his hit songs were inspired by Kidman, while clarifying that not all of his songs are specifically about her, some are more “observational,” according to a podcast appearance he made in September 2024 on ‘Literally! With Rob Lowe’.
Their marriage had sparked interest and admiration from fans, especially when Urban performed his song “The Fighter,” dedicated to Kidman, during a live concert in 2016. The song’s lyrics were altered recently as Urban named his utility player, Maggie Baugh, in place of Kidman’s name, following news of their impending divorce in September 2025. Urban’s openness about his inspiration behind some of his songs, including those written for Kidman, sheds light on the personal connection between his music and his life experiences.
In a concert in Melbourne, Australia in June 2014, Urban revealed to the audience that he wrote the track “Once in a Lifetime” about Kidman while they were engaged, just months before their wedding. The song was a reassurance to Kidman during a time when she expressed doubts about their future together. Similarly, the song “Got It Right This Time (The Celebration)” was released in 2006, around the time of their marriage, with Urban reflecting on the evolution of their relationship in subsequent recordings. The track “Thank You,” released in 2009, was a heartfelt gesture from Urban to Kidman, expressing his gratitude for her unwavering support during challenging times.
In 2016, Urban collaborated with Carrie Underwood on the duet “The Fighter,” drawing inspiration from his desire to protect and care for Kidman during difficult moments in their relationship. The song’s meaning evolved over time, reflecting Urban’s commitment to nurturing their bond. Urban’s songs serve as a testament to the depth of his feelings for Kidman and the impact she has had on his life and music. Despite their separation, the emotion and sincerity in Urban’s music dedicated to Kidman continue to resonate with fans and listeners worldwide.
In his 2018 album Graffiti U, Urban included the track “Gemini,” which he confirmed was inspired by Kidman’s personality. The song’s fun and playful lyrics capture Urban’s admiration for Kidman’s character, portraying her as both passionate and intelligent. Each song written by Urban for Kidman stands as a musical tribute to their shared journey and the profound connection they experienced throughout their marriage. Urban’s ability to express his emotions through his music has allowed fans to witness the love and appreciation he holds for Kidman, further highlighting the enduring impact of their relationship within his artistry.
Keith Urban’s artistry and his personal life intertwine in a blend of melodies and lyrics that reflect his deep connection with Nicole Kidman. As the pair navigates the complexities of separation and divorce, Urban’s songs stand as a poignant reminder of the love, gratitude, and admiration he felt for Kidman throughout their relationship.