Meet the Real-Life Loves of “The Sandman” Cast (Including the Couple Who Met in a Dentist’s Office!)

In a world where dark fantasy meets gripping reality, the cast of Netflix’s hit series “The Sandman” brings to life tangled love stories that are both tragic and extraordinary. Based on Neil Gaiman’s DC comic book series, the show follows Dream, also known as Morpheus, and his journey to reclaim his lost power and face the consequences of his long captivity. The final episode of the series aired on July 31, captivating audiences with its unique storyline and compelling characters.

Off-screen, the love lives of “The Sandman” cast members paint a more serene picture compared to the turmoil on the show. Tom Sturridge, who plays the mysterious Dream, has been in a relationship with model Alexa Chung since at least 2022. While engagement rumors have circulated, the couple prefers to keep their romance out of the limelight, occasionally making appearances at prestigious events like Wimbledon and the Met Gala.

Kirby Howell-Baptiste, who portrays Death in the series, has had a less-publicized love life. Last linked to actor Larry Fields, Howell-Baptiste co-authored a children’s book with him in 2022. On the other hand, Barry Sloane, who plays Destruction, has been happily married to spiritual teacher and artist Katy Sloane since 2013, celebrating their 12th anniversary in June 2025 with heartfelt messages on social media.

As for Vivienne Acheampong, known for her role as the chief librarian, her romantic status remains a mystery. However, Acheampong has expressed admiration for her character’s relationship with Dream, highlighting the depth of their connection on screen. Adrian Lester, who portrays Destiny, is currently single following his split from actress Lolita Chakrabarti in 2023, with whom he shares two daughters.

Mason Alexander Park, who embodies Desire on screen, found love with actress Sally Frith in 2023. The couple’s romance blossomed while performing in Cabaret on the West End, showcasing a real-life connection beyond the on-screen portrayal. Meanwhile, Donna Preston, who plays Despair, is currently single but has expressed interest in finding love on the reality series Celebs Go Dating, bringing a mix of hope and humour to her quest.

Esmé Creed-Miles, who enchants viewers as Delirium, sparked engagement rumours with singer Daisy Maybe in July 2025, hinting at a deeper commitment. Their connection mirrors the whimsical chaos of Delirium’s character, adding a touch of magic to their real-life story. Notably, Gwendoline Christie, who portrays Lucifer Morningstar, has been in a devoted relationship with fashion designer Giles Deacon since 2013. Deacon’s creative prowess extends to designing Christie’s costumes for the show, bringing a unique blend of artistry and love to the screen.

In the realm of Dream’s companions, Patton Oswalt, who plays Matthew the Raven, found love and companionship with actress Meredith Salenger. Their journey to love began amidst mourning after the passing of Oswalt’s first wife, leading to a heartwarming union that now includes Salenger stepping into the role of a loving stepmother. Additionally, Mark Hamill, known for his role as Merv Pumpkinhead, has shared a lasting marriage with his wife, Marilou Hamill, since 1978, building a family together that spans generations.

Jenna Coleman, who embodies the modern-day detective Johanna Constantine, has been linked to director Jamie Childs since 2021, with the couple welcoming their first child in 2024. Lastly, Stephen Fry, who plays Gilbert in the series, has been happily married to Elliott Spencer since 2015, defying norms with their age difference and expressing profound love for each other. These real-life love stories add depth and richness to the lives of “The Sandman” cast, showcasing a blend of romance, commitment, and genuine connection beyond the realms of fantasy and fiction.